ghast Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 (edited) Interactions with my school crushes have led to an almost- no, complete universal failure whenever I tried to make a move or do something proactive about it. When I was 6 years old, and having just moved from a city which, even at kindergarden age, was surprisingly super mature and was cool about boys liking girls, I thought all girls and boys were on the same level of "maturity". Heck, I even had a "girlfriend" at the age of 5! Pretty much my first time telling a girl that I liked her in grade 1 from this new school in a new province led to hysterical laughter on her part with a side of "ew boys are gross" cringe. She told her friends and I became that guy who liked girls. That lasted for a solid 3-4 years. Another time in grade 7, I was crushing on another classmate. And word spread that I liked her and I wanted to ask her out on a date. I was downstairs chilling at recess and my dudes chased me down and literally -and I won't forget this- said "You have been summoned." I walked up the stairs and she was standing across from me awkwardly waiting with literally the rest of the class. In retrospect, it was super forced and I think I got set up just to be made fun of later. I asked her out really confidently and she looked down, giggled awkwardly and said "I don't know" and then went back to her girlfriends. Until grade 11, that was pretty much that last time I would ever ask a girl out. High school was filled with "I just want to be friends/ you're so nice".But at least I was crushing on not-french immersion girls who weren't a hive mind and had the decency not to tell all of their friends! ---- Aaah, school... university is so much better. Y'all got any stories? Edited November 25, 2015 by Ghastly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alex95 Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 Eh, why not? In grades 1-3, I had what could be considered a girlfriend now, though I didn't know what a "date" was back then. She moved away in 2004 and haven't seen her since, but we're still friends over Facebook. In grade 7, I actually had a girl come after me. Me! Didn't think I had it in me! Unfortunately, I learned of the "No dating until you're 16" rule in between grades 4-6, so I had to turn her down. A lot. High school... was awkward. Every girl I asked turned me down by saying "I have plans," "I already have a boyfriend," or just flat out "no." I asked out, like, 10 girls. Eventually, I managed to get one to go out with me, though. Back to that girl from 7th grade, I decided to try and make up for not being able to go out with her. Still trying, actually. She's playing a VERY good game of hard to get. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azz Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 i never really had crushes until now being in my teen age years. Of coarse my first crush had to be someone I was pretty good friends with and also very straight. It's not nice, especially when you sit beside him in like 90% of classes. Not a very interesting story I know. Really crushes in high school fucking suck, especially if your gay since either the only other gay guy wont go out with you or there are none. I can't wait till I am legal so I can start going to bars to actually meet people. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moira Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 (edited) Someone asked me out in like middle school and I said no, so they tried to hit me with a metal bowl. Good times Edited November 25, 2015 by Moira Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tiny_Manakete Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 Ehhhh This year I went to Homecoming with my crush because I asked him out and stuffs. I'm surprised he accepted my offer. And we, surprisingly acted like a couple and the people around us told us to kiss and they shipped it so hard and I was beet red with embarrassment. And then my friend who was also there started to take pictures of us together and she was questioning if we were dating, which was funny. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sylveonzoroark Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 Ehhhh This year I went to Homecoming with my crush because I asked him out and stuffs. I'm surprised he accepted my offer. And we, surprisingly acted like a couple and the people around us told us to kiss and they shipped it so hard and I was beet red with embarrassment. And then my friend who was also there started to take pictures of us together and she was questioning if we were dating, which was funny. I ship Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tiny_Manakete Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 Sylveo no Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghast Posted November 25, 2015 Author Share Posted November 25, 2015 awe :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lantairu Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 Lol in 4th and 5th grade I was "dating" someone (not really because its two ten year olds) and she was "cheating" on me and three other boys, so I dumped her on Valentine's Day. I cringe at those years. Not too long ago I confessed to a girl I was already friends with and she gave me a super ambiguous answer. She's just like, "ok". Whatever. Someone asked me out in like middle school and I say no, so they tried to hit me with a metal bowl. Good times WTF? Thats more than a crush. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Esme Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 I've never approached a crush. Not like I could, anyway. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Original Alear Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 Lol in 4th and 5th grade I was "dating" someone (not really because its two ten year olds) and she was "cheating" on me and three other boys, so I dumped her on Valentine's Day. I cringe at those years. Not too long ago I confessed to a girl I was already friends with and she gave me a super ambiguous answer. She's just like, "ok". Whatever. WTF? Thats more than a crush.You're right. That's a bash.I haven't had that many crushez. I can think of two I..."approached?" Neither took me up on it. There was also one other girl I approached, but only bc I was pressured into it - wasn't interested Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Garnef Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 (edited) I had the courage to ask a girl to be my girlfriend back in freshman year... ...but then we agreed it wouldn't work out because I was moving away a few days later. ;~; Edited November 25, 2015 by Nexas Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
claire Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 (edited) idk usually i get over crushes after 3 days or so so its not an issue for me which is kinda boring but w/e but ye ive been asked out, and depending on the person i either act like a bitch (those creepy guys who you barely know) or try 2 be nice, meaning i say no Edited November 25, 2015 by piichinu Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EricaofRenais Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 I was home schooled, so I never had crushes when I was younger. When I went to college I would have some but I would always find out that they had girlfriends. My problem is i attract older guys (like old enough to be my dad) and I hate it. I don't wear make up I dress modestly and I try to be friendly to guys my own age, but the only guys that hit on me are too old and I don't want to go out with. I guess where I live only older guys like woman with curves and it sucks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sylveonzoroark Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 (edited) my crush will never meet me i literally have a 0.000000% chance of him noticing me Edited November 25, 2015 by sylveonzoroark Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alex95 Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 I completely misread the topic of this post, I think. In terms of actual crushes, I only have one right now, but I asked out just about any girl I met that I liked in high school. (I know, I'm the resident Inigo :P) I haven't had too many experiences, and the ones I had aren't really noteworthy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Original Alear Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 my crush will never meet me i literally have a 0.000000% chance of him noticing me well maybe then he is a failure as a senpai. But I admit that the final purpose of the senpai still eludes me. Should they notice? Or not? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VROOOOM Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 (edited) I... haven't actually had a lot of crushes. When I was younger I was that little shit who thought he liked anyone that was around his age, but I never really did anything because I'm home schooled and, while I am fine talking to people, romantically speaking I am not very experienced. Recently however, I was talking with this girl I like at my dance class and, one thing led to another, she said she was sorry for being an uninterested bitch. She wasn't wrong, but I didn't know what to say and just sorta walked away. I made up later that night and I think she likes me. Edited November 25, 2015 by punk emblem Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Esme Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 my crush will never meet me i literally have a 0.000000% chance of him noticing me that's why they're called "crushes" ;_____; Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VROOOOM Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 I was home schooled, so I never had crushes when I was younger. Oh hey other homeschooled peeps Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VROOOOM Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 that's why they're called "crushes" ;_____; I thought they were called that since they crush your heart into little pieces ;_; Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Esme Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 I thought they were called that since they crush your heart into little pieces ;_; That's what I mean. Your LOVE won't work out, therefore it CRUSHES your heart to think about it. not all the time, but you know what I mean. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junkhead Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 (edited) I think all the stories you've told us so far, none were actually your fault. It's just kids being dumb. Anyway, I think when we're younger, we worry about everything. Like, what they're going to think about *insert stupid thing here*. And you seemed pretty brave about it, too. I would've died halfway there. Nowadays, I don't care much what people think. Oh hey other homeschooled peepsI'll never understand why it's so common for kids in the U.S to be homeschooled. That, and that weird thing of keeping your kids on a leash. Like, a literal leash. Edited November 25, 2015 by Soul o: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Renne Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 Uhhh... I've had plenty of crushes, but the first one was probably in sixth grade. And even then, I think it was forced. Most of my crushes happened in my twenties and they were most likely crap I did to fill a certain voice in my life. And terrible mistakes. Most of them were online though. And then my last crush turned into love and yeah. \o/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VROOOOM Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 I'll never understand why it's so common for kids in the U.S to be homeschooled. That, and that weird thing of keeping your kids on a leash. Like, a literal leash. I don't believe I've been kept on a leash, metaphorical or otherwise. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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