CA Valkyrie Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 On 4/10/2018 at 9:21 PM, SullyMcGully said: I mean, might as well fantasize about cuddling with Pokemon. It's about as likely as some of us ever finding a real girl to get up close and personal with... Don't fret. You're still young and you're special someone is out there. Not saying it will be easy or your girl will magically fall into your lap without you doing anything. But being single doesn't have to be you're future if you don't want it to. Pokemon are super cute and we could only hope to be so lucky as to find one to cuddle with Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Res Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 On 4/10/2018 at 7:24 PM, Rezzy said: Third, I think, with you and eclipse being older. I posted in here, too though granted I have quite a few pages to catch up on Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Excellen Browning Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 this thread is now about helping dragoncat and sullymcgully to get laid. or is it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eclipse Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 3 minutes ago, Excellen Browning said: this thread is now about helping dragoncat and sullymcgully to get laid. or is it? Are you volunteering? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Excellen Browning Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 27 minutes ago, eclipse said: Are you volunteering? depends on whether or not they live in western europe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SullyMcGully Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 2 hours ago, Excellen Browning said: this thread is now about helping dragoncat and sullymcgully to get laid. or is it? Ew gross! I'm clearly not old enough for this discussion. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Excellen Browning Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 13 minutes ago, SullyMcGully said: Ew gross! I'm clearly not old enough for this discussion. If you're 18, you're legal Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Excellen Browning Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 or was it 16? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SullyMcGully Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 1 minute ago, Excellen Browning said: If you're 18, you're legal If I don't want to, it's still illegal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lau Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 You're all so wise... If we're talking about relationships, then...I want somebody who isn't too clingy, isn't always texting me, somebody who understands that I need my own space. I've never been in a romantic relationship before, so I don't know if this'll change once I find someone I really like. But one thing is for sure...I want someone who is willing to sit down and communicate. I don't want to jump over hurdles just to try and read their minds or vice versa. If there's a problem, I'd like to sit down and talk it out. Communication is key. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Res Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 There are plenty of people who aren’t clingy in that matter! Good communication is a lot rarer, in my experience (and hearing from others). It’s definitely key, though. Sitting down to talk is tough for people even when they acknowledge it’s the best thing to do. It’s even harder if you come from any background with constant conflicts. I actually still talk to my husband via text a lot, because my mouth often literally won’t form the right words face-to-face. However, bringing up matters via text then chatting about it once we’ve both had a chance to digest the texts has been working well, so I don’t really think there’s an issue with it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rezzy Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 3 hours ago, Res said: . I actually still talk to my husband via text a lot, because my mouth often literally won’t form the right words face-to-face. However, bringing up matters via text then chatting about it once we’ve both had a chance to digest the texts has been working well, so I don’t really think there’s an issue with it. Sometimes, that's what we do, too. Even if we're sitting right next to each other, it's easier to type things out than actually say it out loud. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captain Karnage Posted April 13, 2018 Share Posted April 13, 2018 Ladies, I've got a question for you all. Is it weird if the guy is younger than you? I'm going out with a girl tonight whose got 5 years on me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rezzy Posted April 14, 2018 Share Posted April 14, 2018 15 minutes ago, Captain Karnage said: Ladies, I've got a question for you all. Is it weird if the guy is younger than you? I'm going out with a girl tonight whose got 5 years on me. Nope, I'm the older one in my marriage. As you get older, a few years difference doesn't matter as much. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CA Valkyrie Posted April 14, 2018 Share Posted April 14, 2018 5 hours ago, Res said: Sitting down to talk is tough for people even when they acknowledge it’s the best thing to do. It’s even harder if you come from any background with constant conflicts. I actually still talk to my husband via text a lot, because my mouth often literally won’t form the right words face-to-face. However, bringing up matters via text then chatting about it once we’ve both had a chance to digest the texts has been working well, so I don’t really think there’s an issue with it. That's pretty interesting. Normally, I would just text "We need to talk," and specify where and when we should. But I do see some value in texting out your feelings especially if you convey them better in writing than verbally. I guess psychologically it is good to see what you're going to talk about before you actually talk about it. 23 minutes ago, Captain Karnage said: Is it weird if the guy is younger than you? I'm going out with a girl tonight whose got 5 years on me. To second what Rezzy said, age gap means less as you get older. I'm guessing you're still quite young. I'd just be more cautious if you're dating someone younger. Make sure she's at least 18. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Res Posted April 14, 2018 Share Posted April 14, 2018 I’m 3 years older than my husband, we’ve been together since he was 19 and I was 22 (albeit nearly 20 and nearly 23). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captain Karnage Posted April 14, 2018 Share Posted April 14, 2018 1 hour ago, CA Valkyrie said: That's pretty interesting. Normally, I would just text "We need to talk," and specify where and when we should. But I do see some value in texting out your feelings especially if you convey them better in writing than verbally. I guess psychologically it is good to see what you're going to talk about before you actually talk about it. To second what Rezzy said, age gap means less as you get older. I'm guessing you're still quite young. I'd just be more cautious if you're dating someone younger. Make sure she's at least 18. She's 27, I'm 22, that's why it feels weird. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CA Valkyrie Posted April 14, 2018 Share Posted April 14, 2018 20 minutes ago, Captain Karnage said: She's 27, I'm 22, that's why it feels weird. Age difference does matter to some people and they aren't as comfortable dating people farther apart in age. It isn't right or wrong, it simply depends on the person. I mean I've been turned down because I was either too young or too old, and I get it. Personally, I think you're okay. You'd be surprised how common (or not as uncommon) relationships with such age differences occur. Five years is by no means a generational gap that would hinder your compatibility. If it doesn't work out, it would be for reasons other than age. If I were you I would go out on a couple of dates and see if there's chemistry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captain Karnage Posted April 14, 2018 Share Posted April 14, 2018 One last question, how long should I wait before I leave? She's 30 minutes late and not replying to my texts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rezzy Posted April 14, 2018 Share Posted April 14, 2018 3 minutes ago, Captain Karnage said: One last question, how long should I wait before I leave? She's 30 minutes late and not replying to my texts. Where are you at? It's kind of hard to say. If I'm driving, I don't always respond to texts right away. Stuff happens, and I've had people be half an hour late before. I wouldn't text anymore, but see if she shows. Once it's been an hour, I could say it's safe to say she's probably not coming, and you could text her then. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Infinite Dreams Posted April 14, 2018 Share Posted April 14, 2018 51 minutes ago, Captain Karnage said: One last question, how long should I wait before I leave? She's 30 minutes late and not replying to my texts. Awww. I hope she showed up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captain Karnage Posted April 14, 2018 Share Posted April 14, 2018 47 minutes ago, Rezzy said: Where are you at? It's kind of hard to say. If I'm driving, I don't always respond to texts right away. Stuff happens, and I've had people be half an hour late before. I wouldn't text anymore, but see if she shows. Once it's been an hour, I could say it's safe to say she's probably not coming, and you could text her then. At a local college bar, tbh I really don't like these kinds of places 1 minute ago, Infinite Dreams said: Awww. I hope she showed up. She didn't Well this is the second time I've been stood up this month. I'm think about going full blown mgtow lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johann Posted April 14, 2018 Share Posted April 14, 2018 1 hour ago, Captain Karnage said: At a local college bar, tbh I really don't like these kinds of places She didn't Well this is the second time I've been stood up this month. I'm think about going full blown mgtow lol Dates with a stranger are shitty by default. People bailing on a date or ghosting you is the norm there, and it's a sign that you're not missing out on that person. There are any number of reasons why they'll cancel of vanish, but you can chalk it up to that person being not ready and/or inconsiderate of someone else's time. Don't let rejection ruin your outlook, or else you're going to be alone forever, and probably angry about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CA Valkyrie Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 On 4/13/2018 at 9:26 PM, Captain Karnage said: She didn't Well this is the second time I've been stood up this month. I'm think about going full blown mgtow lol Oh no! So sorry to hear that :-( 22 is still young and you'll have plenty of opportunities to find someone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charmeleonbrah Posted April 16, 2018 Share Posted April 16, 2018 On April 11, 2018 at 9:06 AM, Dragoncat said: Plus, I'm certain if I were to find him now, I'd probably mostly only want him around for sex and tell him to go home other times because I want my space. So...yeah. Lmao this is almost exactly what I say to ppl to get them off my case when they ask abt why I'm single. Gamer gfs are in high demand and low supply, you'll be fine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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